Sun Haven: Female Romance Guide (Updated)

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Sun Haven is a multiplayer farming sim and fantasy RPG. And no good sim is without its share of great romance. In Sun Haven you are helping your town to restore it to its former glory. You can do it in any of all of the ways, as a farmer, fisherman, warrior or mage. Raise animals and crops together and of course, have someone next to you to go through it all.

Sun Haven‘s romantic system works similarly to that of Stardew Valley and Story of Seasons. You’ll need to become friends with your potential paramour first before you can start a romantic relationship. There are romanceable characters in Sun Haven with plenty of dynamic conversation. Unlike other games, it’s not just gift-giving that’s important but the conversation itself plays a big role. Eventually, you’ll be able to date (even multiple suitors) and then even marry them.

In this guide, we’ll show you all of the romanceable female characters. If you want to read about the male romance characters, tab this link open too!

Note: This article has been udpated with new information since its original publication in August 2024.


Relationship Stages In Sun Haven

There are five relationship stages that you can achieve with your romance candidates that begin with friendship, and that can eventually end in marriage. In order to progress that way, you’ll need to engage your intended beloved in conversation and gifting. Do this every day and watch that relationship build.


Dating

Once the player has progressed through the friendship stage enough, your intended will ask if you would like to go on a date. If you accept, you’ll unlock a special mission that you can follow through with.

The date itself is a sequence of dialogue similar to the dialogue checks prompted by interacting with romance candidates. You’ll be able to go on two unique dates with either bachelor or bachelorette you decide. And after the second date, they will ask you to go start dating officially. This will unlock new dialogue cycles.

Note: There is currently no limit to the number of characters the player can date at once


Marriage

Once you’ve reached 15 hearts with a romance candidate, you’ll unlock the option to propose to them. If you’d like to take your relationship to the next stage, head over to Town Hall and buy the Engagement Ring. If they accept your proposal, your wedding will happen the following day at 4 pm.

Make this decision wisely because you won’t be able to marry anyone else after this!

The next day, you’ll attend the ceremony where you’ll have one last option to back out of the marriage by selecting “I do not”. If, however, you select “I do” then you and your partner will be married and exchange wedding rings.

This unlocks the Enchanted Wedding Ring: +30 HP, +30MP, +20%EXP


Female Romance Candidates

Anne

Image Credit: ChromaGlitch

The savvy, extravagant owner of Sun Haven’s Traveling Exotics Shop. This workaholic lives her life on a cycle of buying and selling. While not the most humanitarian person, she is reliable… for a price!

SpeciesHuman
BirthdayWinter 21
OccupationGeneral Store Owner
LocationSun Haven, Anne’s House

Anne Gifts

LoveItems: Diamond, Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Small Money Bag
Food: Cheesecake, Fancy Grape Juice, Fancy Hot Dog, Persian Love Cake
Crop: Shimmeroot
LikeItems: Amethyst, Gold Bar, Gold Ore, Ruby, Sapphire
Food: Black Forest Cake, Eclair, Red Velvet Cake, Red Velvet Cupcake, Souffle
Crop: Raspberry, Wheat
DislikeItems: Anne’s Record, Anne’s Wedding Ring, Anne’s Pearl Earrings, Coal, Copper Ore, Rusty Axe / Hoe / Pickaxe / Watering Can, Stone
Fish: Catfish

Anne’s Daily Schedule

Anne has a schedule that will change after she marries you. Anne’s House is available to the player 8 AM – 8 PM.

TimeBefore MarriageAfter Marriage
6:00 AMHomeHome
7:30 AMGeneral StoreGeneral Store
11:30 AMMerchant StallMerchant Stall
1:00 PMRecord StoreRecord Store
2:00 PMPet StorePet Store
3:00 PMTavernTavern
6:30 PMHome
8:30 PMHome
10:30 PMHome
11:30 PMGoes to Bed

Catherine

Catherine is Sun Haven’s resident Amari witch. She owns the Farming Store as well as makes a number of potions and prescriptions for the town, to the point that Wornhardt trusts her enough to fill medicine orders.

SpeciesAmari (Rabbit)
BirthdaySummer 25
OccupationFarming Store Owner / Town Witch
LocationSun Haven, Catherine’s House

Catherine Gifts

LoveItems: Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Glorite Watering Can, Sunite Watering Can
Food: Berry Pie, Blueberry Salad, Carrot Cake, Carrot Juice, Mushroom Pie
Crop: Blue Moon Fruit, Lavender, Pumpkin
LikeItems: Adamant Watering Can, Cooking Pot, Copper Watering Can, Earth Crystal, Iron Watering Can, Mithril Watering Can, Small Mana Tome
Food: Caribbean Green Soup, Flan, Red Veggie Soup
Crop: Beet, Candy Cane, Carrot, Shimmeroot
Fish: Tadpole
DislikeItems: Catherine Record, Catherine’s Wedding Ring, Catherine’s Charm, Wilted Lily Bloom
Food: Chicken Noodle Soup, Creamy Beef Stew, Meat, Pumpkin Jelly, Steak
Fish: All Fish

Catherine’s Daily Schedule

Catherine has a schedule that will change after she marries you. Catherine’s House is available to the player from 8 AM – 8 PM.

TimeBefore MarriageAfter Marriage
6:00 AMHomeHome
8:00 AMOutside Home
10:00 AMPicnic Table Northeast of Home
1:00 PMFarming StoreFarming Store
4:30 PMPet StorePet Store
5:00 PMOutside of the Pet StoreOutside of the Pet Store
7:00 PMOutside HomeOutside Catherine’s Home
9:30 PMHomeHome
11:00 PMGoes to Bed

Elyssia

Note: Elyssia is a new romanceable NPC that came with the v3.0 patch in December 2025.

Elyssia is a highly respected mage of the Great City, employed by its ruling powers to investigate crimes, safeguard artifacts, and maintain civic order. Gifted with time-based magic, she can peer into the past and glimpse possible futures.

SpeciesDragon
BirthdaySummer 11
OccupationMage, Investigator
LocationThe Great City, Elyssia’s Apartment

Elyssia Gifts

LoveItems: Cuckoo Wall Clock, Grandfather Clock, Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Triceratops Plushie, Turtle Plushie
Food: Apple Pie, Cookies, Flan, Fried Rice, Fruit Tart, Grilled Cheese, Omelet, Potato Salad, Spellberry Juice, Spellberry Tartlets, Sugar Apple Herbal Soup, Sugar Apple Ice Cream, Sugar Apple Juice, Wind Chime Tea
LikeItems: Antler, Crystal Fruit, Dragon Scale, Earth Crystal, Earth Rune, Mantel Clock, Refined Glass, Refined Metal, Round Wall Clock, Sand Dollar, Small Mana Tome
Food: Scrambled Eggs, Tea
Crop: Hexfruit, Spellberry, Sugar Apple, Tea Leaves
DislikeItems: Amulet of Immortality, Cracked Mage’s Ring, Dead Log, Elyssia’s Dragon Scale, Lost Mage’s Ring, Silk, Spider Plushie, Spiderweb Painting, Tentacle Monster Emblem
Food: Cookie Spider, Spider Pie
Fish: Zombie Fish

Elyssia’s Daily Schedule

Elyssia’s schedule doesn’t change after she marries you, but her home will be your home. Elyssia’s Apartment is available to the player from 8 AM – 10 PM.

TimeSchedule
6:00 AMHome
9:00 AMToy Store
11:30 AMHotdog Stand
12:30 PMBig Tree
2:30 PMOutside Potion Shop
3:30 PMOutside General Store
4:00 PMOutside Cafe
5:30 PMFountain
8:30 PMHome
11:30 PMGoes to Bed

Iris

Iris is an Elven enchanter in Nel’Vari. Nature is central to her work, experimenting and discovering things about how nature and magic interact. Proudly independent, she values making choices of her own.

SpeciesElf
BirthdaySummer 22
OccupationEnchanter
LocationNel’Vari, Iris’ House

Iris Gifts

LoveItems: Amazing Elixir of Farming, Blue Rose Bouquet, Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Pricklepop Pear, Prickletot Pear, Red Rose Bouquet, Small Mana Tome
Food: Bitter Seltzer, Blueberry Smoothie, Grape Juice, Spicy Ramen
Crop: Lotus
LikeItems: Advanced Earth / Fire / Magic Fertilizer, Amethyst, Diamond, Mana Fertilizer, Oak Tree Seeds, Ruby, Sapphire, Simple Earth / Fire / Magic / Sand Fertilizer
Crop: Honeysuckle, Lily
DislikeItems: All Swords, All Crossbows, Iris’s Wedding Ring, Iris’s Enchanted Totem, Wilted Lily Bloom
Food: Fancy Hot Dog, Plain Hot Dog

Iris’ Daily Schedule

Iris has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. Iris’s House is available to the player all day (6AM – 12AM).

TimeSchedule
6:00 AMHome
10:30 AMOutside Nel’Vari Farm Animal Shop
1:00 PMBulletin Board
3:30 PMGrand Tree Tavern
11:00 PMHome

Kitty

Kitty is a bubbly Amari villager who resides in her home east of the Bakery. She is the owner of both Sun Haven’s Pet Store and Animal Shop. She also has her own pen of farm animals just outside her house.

SpeciesAmari (Cat)
BirthdayWinter 23
OccupationPet Shop Owner
LocationSun Haven, Kitty’s House

Kitty Gifts

LoveItems: Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips
Food: Any Sushi, Any Roll, Any Sashimi, Fish Taco, Fish Tempura, Fish and Chips
LikeItems: Amethyst, Animal Food, Diamond, Gear Maiden Wig, Ruby, Sapphire, XBK One Chance Romance Record
Food: Apple Pie, Cinnamon Apple Pie, Mochi, Mochi Covered Strawberry
Crop: Wool
Fish: Sandstone Fish
DislikeItems: Coal, Kitty Record, Kitty Wedding Ring, Kitty’s Cat Toy, Pet Leash, Sand
Food: Glass of Pure Water
Fish: Eyelotl, Seaweed

Kitty’s Daily Schedule

Kitty has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. Kitty’s House is available to the player 8 AM – 10 PM.

TimeSchedule
6:00 AMHome
9:00 AMOutside Home
4:00 PMPet Store
8:00 PMOutside Home
9:30 PMHome
11:00 PMGoes to Bed

Lucia

Image Credit: Fableheim

Lucia is the figurehead and guiding light of Sun Haven. Blessed with magic by the Sun Dragon at a young age, this fiery Archmage runs Sun Haven as its de facto leader.

SpeciesHuman
BirthdaySummer 20
OccupationArchmage, Leader of Sun Haven
LocationSun Haven, Lucia’s House

Lucia Gifts

LoveItems: Fire Crystal, Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Large Mana Tome, Small Mana Tome, Sunite Ore
Food: Cream Seltzer, Fizzy Seltzer, Tikka Masala
LikeItems: Young Mage Hat, Young Mage Robe, Young Mage Skirt
Food: Energy Smoothie, Hot Sauce, Spicy Catsup, Spicy Ramen, Spicy Shrimp Ramen, Strawberry Juice, Sweet and Spicy Shrimp
Crop: Greenspice, Heat Fruit, Pepper
Fish: Blazeel, Flame Ray, Hearth Angler, Inferno Guppy, Magma Star, Molten Slug, Pyrelus, Scorching Squid, Searback
DislikeItems: Earth Crystal, Lucia Record, Lucia Wedding Ring, Lucia’s Fire Orb, Water Crystal
Food: Blizzard Berry Stew, Brr-Nana Smoothie, Spiced Cocoa
Crop: Blizzard Berry, Brr-Nana, Candy Cane, Snow Ball, Snow Pea

Lucia’s Daily Schedule

Lucia has a schedule that will change after she marries you. Lucia’s House is available to the player from 8 AM – 10 PM.

TimeBefore MarriageAfter Marriage
6:00 AMHomeHome
8:00 AMTown HallTown Hall
10:00 AMOutside Lynn’s HouseOutside Lynn’s House
1:30 PMLibraryLibrary
3:00 PMTown HallTown Hall
7:30 PMOutside HomeOutside Lucia’s Home
9:00 PMHome
9:30 PMHome

Lynn

Lynn is an apprentice blacksmith and is still learning to trust herself and her smithing skills. She is the first character you’ll meet on the train, as she is also moving to Sun Haven.

SpeciesHuman
BirthdaySpring 10
OccupationApprentice Blacksmith
LocationSun Haven, Lynn’s House

Lynn Gifts

LoveItems: Anvil, Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Glorite Bar, Mana Anvil, Mithril Bar, Monster Anvil, Sunite Bar, Withergate Anvil
Food: Cream Seltzer, Creamy Beef Stew, Creamy Mushroom Soup, Egg Hash, Hot Chocolate, Pot Pie, Stuffed Casserole
LikeItems: Adamant Bar, Copper Bar, Iron Bar, Mithril Bar
Food: Apple Juice, Fizzy Seltzer, Glass of Pure Water, Milk, Pickled Veggie Salad, Veggie Kebab
DislikeItems: Advanced Earth / Fire / Magic Fertilizer, Lynn Record, Lynn Wedding Ring, Lynn’s Shield, Simple Earth / Fire / Magic Fertilizer
Food: Chocolate Cake, Chocolate Cupcake, Sugar Cake

Lynn’s Daily Schedule

Lynn has one schedule that he follows rain or shine. When you’re married to her the only thing that will change is that she will sleep in your house. Lynn’s House is available to the player from 8 AM – 8 PM.

TimeSchedule
6:00 AMHome
8:30 AMOutside Solon’s Smithery
9:30 AMSolon’s Smithery
2:00 PMQuarry
4:00 PMTown
7:00 PMHome

Miyeon

Note: Miyeon is a new romanceable NPC that came with the v1.3 patch in October 2023.

Miyeon, The “Perfect” Daughter, has moved to Sun Haven from the realm of the Angels. With great expectations, her highly accomplished parents hope she’ll be inspired by a town of young professionals. Miyeon has the wings, but living under the pressures of perfection, this angel needs to overcome her anxiousness to fly.

SpeciesAngel
BirthdayWinter 6
OccupationWatcher
LocationSun Haven, Miyeon’s House

Miyeon Gifts

LoveItems: Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Small Potted Bush
Food: Berry Cake, Blue Rose Cake, Blueberry Cake, Bubble Tea, Honeycomb Cake, Hydrangea Cupcake, Indiglow Tea, Lemon Cake, Orange Cream Cake, Snappy Juice, Strawberry Cake, Strawberry Shortcake, Sugar Cake, Tea, Wind Chime Tea
Crop: Honeysuckle
Fish: Angelfin, Flower Flounder
LikeItems: Earth Crystal, Hand Stitched Soccer Ball, Large Mana Potion, Large Mana Tome, Magical Water, Mana Water, Small Mana Potion, Small Mana Tome
Food: Acorn Milk, Bear-y Cute Burger, Cake Pop, Cookies, Earth Dragon Tea, Fire Dragon Tea, Flan, Fruit Cupcake, Glass of Pure Water, Strawberry Milk, Water Dragon Tea
Crop: Tea Leaves
Fish: Angel Fish, Angelfin
DislikeItems: Glorite Bar, Glorite Ore, Glorite Sword, Miyeon Record, Miyeon Wedding Ring, Miyeon’s Amateur Painting, Miyeon’s Tea Pot
Food: Bitter Seltzer, Chocolate, Coffee, Demon Coffee, Demon Energy Juice, Kraken Cola, Spicy Catsup, Spicy Ramen, Spikey Soda, Sucker Soda
Crop: Coffee Bean, Soda Pop Crop

Miyeon’s Daily Schedule

Miyeon has a schedule that will change after she marries you. Miyeon’s House is available to the player from 8 AM – 8 PM.

TimeBefore MarriageAfter Marriage
6:00 AMHomeHome
6:30 AMOutside Library
8:00 AMLibrary
8:30 AMLibrary
10:30 AMTown HallTown Hall
12:30 PMMuseumMuseum
3:30 PMPet StorePet Store
5:00 PMTown HallTown Hall
8:00 PMHomeHome

Xyla

Xyla sits on the Demon King’s royal council and is Withergate’s Demon architect, having built the city from the ground up. The Demon King took her in after Darius found her living in a cave out in the wild.

SpeciesDemon
BirthdayFall 11
OccupationArchitect, Royal Council
LocationWithergate, Xyla’s House

Xyla Gifts

LoveItems: Crown, Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Heavy Crossbow
Food: Red Velvet Cake, Withercake
Crop: Snappy Plant
Fish: Globfish, Purrmaid
LikeItems: Chess Board, Refined Concrete, Refined Glass, Refined Plastic
Food: Fancy Hot Dog, Loaded Hot Dog, Plain Hot Dog, Red Velvet Cupcake
DislikeItems: Amethyst, Bone Gift, Diamond, Gold Bar, Gold Ore, Old Boot, Rel’Tar’s Mark (Crossbow), Ruby, Sapphire, Xyla Record, Xyla Wedding Ring, Xyla’s Queen Chess Piece

Xyla’s Daily Schedule

Xyla has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. You can enter Xyla’s House with a relationship of 5 hearts between the hours of 8 AM – 8 PM.

TimeSchedule
6:00 AMAt home in the Apartment Complex
8:00 AMApartment Complex
10:00 AMThrone Room in Withergate Castle
2:00 PMCarnival
7:30 PMMovies
10:00 PMHome

Vivi

Note: Vivi is a new romanceable NPC that came with the v1.2 patch in June 2023.

Vivi is a determined Amari, hunting the large bounty placed on your head by an unknown figure. With such a juicy bounty over your head, she’s got just the right dagger with your name on it. The only problem now is remembering to tie her boots before your special “date”…

SpeciesAmari (Squirrel)
BirthdayFall 23
OccupationAssassin
LocationSun Haven, Vivi’s House

Vivi Gifts

LoveItems: Barrel Of Swords, Carrot Sword, Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Glorite Sword, Gold Bar, Health Woven Scarf, Rel’Tar’s Mark (Crossbow), Sunite Sword
Food: Acorn, Acorn Milk, Berry Pie, Cinnamon Apple Pie, Fruit Snacks, Raspberry Pie, Seared Acorn Anchovy, Trail Mix
Fish: Acorn Anchovy
LikeItems: Adamant Sword, Advanced Attack Potion, Attack Potion, Copper Sword, Crossbow, Egg Crossbow, Elven Crossbow, Ghostly Great Sword, Gold Ore, Heavy Crossbow, Incredible Attack Potion, Iron Sword, Legendary Great Sword, Mithril Crossbow, Mithril Sword, Pepper Great Sword, All Simple Swords, Small Money Bag
Food: Chocolate Mousse Cake, Creamy Mushroom Soup, Fruit Snacks, Mushroom Pie, Mushroom Risotto, Mushroom Stroganoff
Crop: Berry, Mushroom
DislikeItems: Training Dummy, Vivi Record, Vivi Wedding Ring, Vivi’s Bone Dagger
Food: Bitter Seltzer, Coffee, Cream Seltzer, Demon Coffee, Eggplant Cola, Grape Soda Pop, Kraken Cola, Moonplant Cola, Pumpkin Soda, Spikey Soda, Sucker Soda, Sweet Melon Soda, Tombmelon Soda
Crop: Pepper

Vivi’s Daily Schedule

Vivi has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. When you’re married to her the only thing that will change is that she will sleep in your house.

TimeSchedule
6:00 AMHome
10:30 AMMerchants
1:00 PMGeneral Store
3:00 PMBulletin Board
4:30 PMMerchants
6:00 PMBehind Tavern
9:30 PMHome

Zaria

Note: Zaria is a new romanceable NPC that came with the v1.4 patch in June 2024.

Zaria is a water elemental with a heart as bitter as her taste in treats. Two things everyone in “The Deeps” knows about Zaria is that she works alone and her loyalty can only be earned, and kept, by paying for it. She has a fearsome reputation, but the life of a corsair can be lonely.

SpeciesElemental (Water)
BirthdayFall 8
OccupationSmuggler
LocationBrinestone Deeps, Zaria’s House

Zaria Gifts

LoveItems: Adamant Key, Adamant Ring, Forgotten Bouquet of Hyacinth / Orchids / Peonies / Roses / Tulips, Golden Water Rune, Mithril Key, Mithril Ring
Food: Elemental Cocktail, Lemon Cake, Lemon Meringue, Lemonade, Sour Plum Jam, Sour Plum Soda, Sour Plum Sorbet, Sour Plum Tea, Water Dragon Tea
Crop: Water Fruit, Watermelon
LikeItems: Copper Key, Copper Ring, Ghostly Great Sword, Legendary Great Sword, Iron Key, Iron Ring, Pepper Great Sword, All Simple Swords, Water Crystal, Water Rune, Zaria’s Empty Bucket
Food: Coconut Water, Fairy Cherry Water, Glass of Pure Water, Magical Water, Mana Water
Crop: Kiwi Berry, Lemon, Sour Plum
DislikeItems: Dead Hardwood Plank, Dead Plank, Earth Crystal, Earth Rune, Elven Hardwood Plank, Elven Plank, Fire Crystal, Fire Rune, Hardwood Plank, Legendary Hammer, Lightning Hammer, Potato Hammer, Simple Hammers, Tentacle Monster Emblem, The Prehistoric Special, Wood Plank, Zaria Record, Zaria Wedding Ring, Zaria’s Doubloon
Food: Earth Dragon Tea, Electric Eel Sushi, Fancy Hot Dog, Fire Dragon Tea, Fire Juice, Loaded Hot Dog, Plain Hot Dog
Crop: Fire Fruit, Rock Fruit, Sugar Plum

Zaria’s Daily Schedule

Zaria has one schedule that he follows rain or shine. When you’re married to her the only thing that will change is that she will sleep in your house.

TimeSchedule
6:00 AMHome
8:30 AMBrinestone Deep Tavern
11:00 AMSweets Stall
2:00 PMBy the Cannons
5:00 PMArmory
7:30 PMFactory
10:30 PMHome

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